i just came back from a week away. not away from everyone but I really backed off. i had to. So I totally understand how this can get to you. Even if I slip through the cracks, Scot will know where.

BTW, I found out in March that you can delete your LJ for 2 months (at least) and still have your posts and comments in place when you reactivate it. You can also surf your f-list with it deleted if people don't unfriend you. just FYI. believe me, i know where you're coming from. be well.