thanks for the support. she's still under, but she's coughing up the gunk from her lungs, and the infection may be clearing up (haven't gotten an update the last day) and we are all hoping that since her color is good that when they ease up the sedation after the infection clears she'll come out of it.

her being on a machine to keep her breathing doesn't fill me with confidence though.

I'll be sad if she dies but I know that she enjoyed her life and that we had a good relationship right up until the end. No regrets.

I'm glad you still have your Dad and that you can talk with him about it. I had no idea that she had any of these issues and wish my family communicated a lot better because the shock of this wouldn't have been as bad otherwise.

OT: How's that kinda still new sorta job going for you?